Self-Harm discussion

Okay guys. I'm sorry I'm a day late for posting, but I didn't have a chance to do it yesterday since I didn't have my computer or internet where I was. But here I am, still posting for this week. Nothing really happened worth talking about this week. But I would like to make a post about self harm. I did it at one point and I know many people who have either done it before, or is currently doing it. Let me tell you something. You might feel like this is the only solution, but it's not. You are not only hurting yourself. You are hurting those around you who love you as well. And each time you do it, it makes everyone worry even more about you. Some of you may think that no one notices. Well I bet you anything that more people notice than you think. They might just not bring it up because they don't want you to feel pressured or uncomfortable. They think that if you are hurting so bad inside that you have to cause physical harm to your body, you will end up breaking even more or completely. And they don't want that. All they want to do is help you. Now, you might be wondering why I chose this topic to talk about today. Well, one of the most important people in my life has been self harming ever since she was little. And she is still young. I hate it and I would give anything to help her stop. But no matter what I do to try to help, she just ends up doing it again. But I won't give up on her. I just hope that she can find the will to stop someday soon. Even if it's false hope, I will always hope that. She just doesn't seem to understand how amazing she is. She feels like the whole world is against her but it isn't. She thinks that we are all against her, but we aren't. I hate that she feels this way. I just want to help her stop because I had someone help me to stop back then. And if you think that cutting yourself is the only form of self harm, you are wrong. Anything that is you causing physical or mental harm to yourself is considered self harm. Try different coping skills, go talk to the people around you that you know you can trust. You might even think that you can't trust anyone. Well you need at least one person in your life that you can trust unconditionally. If you don't have that person in your life, I would be more than happy to fill that spot until you can find someone. I will always listen and always do my best to help. So if you or someone you know is suffering from self harm, drop a comment below or show them this blog. Maybe it will help. You can also email me if you don't want to talk on the blog. I don't mind. Anyways. I hope y'all have a wonderful week. Keep pushing forwards. Even if you think all hope is gone. Because everything will eventually get better.